The esteemed Kabbalist Rabbi Gamliel Rabinowitz shlit"a explains why mainly men have been affected in the recent disasters.

"To all the public, I want the whole world to hear this, let the great ones of Israel see this. We have received three blows: 1. Corona 2. Lag BaOmer 3. Shavuot."

"In all these blows, there were no women, only men. Not many women died from Corona, mainly men died. On Lag BaOmer, only men died, on Shavuot only men were affected, not women. What is happening here?"

"The great ones of Israel told me to spread this - all the controversies that exist today between factions are caused only by men, women do not create controversies."

"In all places, the controversy is only among men, therefore they had no merit, but the women who keep away from controversy and do not participate in it - they had merit and were saved from this harsh decree."

"I did not say that because of the controversy they are liable, for Hashem always takes from the tzaddikim, so that everyone will learn, but it is clearly seen that only men suffered from this and not women, because the men are involved in all the controversies."

"A person needs to know that this is a message from the heavens that we need to step away from controversy - Hashem found no vessel that holds blessing other than peace. If you break this, then all the abundance you have flows out."

"One must be very careful and stand aside, not to get involved in controversy. Controversy is fire, it burns - this is a moral lesson that needs to be learned."